a younger guy who is 4 years my junior has chased me for four years but i won't date him because i would feel old, i tend to date men over 40. he is perfect apart from his age, i know men date women half their age so why do i feel bad about 4 years, is 4 years a lot after your mid twenties? i'm 30 but get id'd a lot, people at my new job thought i was 18! and he's 26 but looks a lot older than i look. Is 4 years anything to a guy?
Love who you want to love, and ask yourself, "Do these people's opinions significantly affect my life? I mean in All Honesty?" the answer should be no. If he's the perfect guy and your interested, give him a chance! :)