I would like a serious relationship. I have never had one before. I have never been the kind that wants to sleep around but clearly that is not the impression that I give off because no matter how long I've been seeing a guy for, as soon as it gets sexual or sex is discussed and I say I don't want to yet, I never hear from them again. They just want sex and it's not fair. How do I make it clear that that's not what I want without them disappearing after?
guys want sex as much as love, sex builds that connection and turning guys down for sex is just as bad as getting rejected for love and a possible relationship, that is if the guy isn't a player. and it seems like the ones you meet are that type, probably because you wait for guys to approach and you dont approach them, and thats how girls commonly end up with players.