I just want to know if this is OK. Should these two people have a sexual relationship or just date? What would be better? Should they wait until the teen is 18? Is it frowned upon more if the adult was male Vs female and the teenager was female Vs male? Lastly, the adult (female) doesn't want anything serious. The teenager (male) is very mature and takes care of himself. His mom is an uninvolved parent. What would happen if these two love birds keep hanging out with mutual friends and alone (seldomly)? The group dynamic is great!! PS: They knew each other for awhile... but suddenly the attraction is incredible!! :'( Help me...
- Yes, but wait until he's 18!Vote A
- Yes, only if it's a one time thing!Vote B
- No, that's weird!Vote C
Most Helpful Guy
Okay first of relax you know just as well as we all do that eighteen is the safest age. Now if you feel that the attraction is big enough and it was mutual I'd say way the risk and at that point if you still feel the attachment and attraction is valid then make a move. I'm sure he'll be more than happy about it and honestly you've bin circling round it back and forth for a while. Do understand this though he is young still and so are you attraction especially at his age followed by sex often means he will be wanting commitment of some sort most likely in way of a relationship. Be aware of that fact and if you feel that you wouldn't mind it then move on it. I feel as long as some form of dating process is attempted then you would be just fine.1
- Show AllShow Less
Most Helpful Girl
But why not just wait until he's 18 when you'll for sure be in the free and clear morally, ethically, and legally?
No one will be able to argue against you at that point.3