We are co-workers and we talk here and there but I'm starting to feel very interested in him; we get along really well. He is Colombian and his Spanish accent makes me melt. I could listen to him talking for hours. He kinda flirts with me but i don't know if it's just simple innocent flirting. I don't know how to flirt back since he's older than me. I need help, How do i approach him? HELP ME GUYS!
Would a 35 year old male consider dating a 21 year old female?
What Guys Said 7
I was 30 when I dated a 23 was no big deal and we worked together but in different departments. For us at the time it was co-ordinating either our lunch breaks together (we get 45min for lunch) either eat outside somewhere else than the shitty breakroom or just hit up Starbucks that was like 10minutes away. Try asking him questions about his dept., if he has made any sales then slip if he's the best in his dept., that's how she came onto me but I had already known we were both checking each other out with our eyes like 2/3 days earlier. Or just ask if he wants to grab a Starbucks down the way. Can't help to try.1
I don't know... never date a co-worker. The only way it works it is if you two get married or someone gets fired.
I don't know... I'm 35 myself and can't see myself dating anyone under 26-27 ish. Do you two only hang out at work? How is this guy not married?0
My most recent ex is 22 and I dated her when I was 35 several months back. Maturity and emotional compatibility are important when dating someone with that much of an age gap.1
You just approach him. Your age gap isn''t much in my opinion.1
Yes, yes they would. For LTR too if that's what you mean.1
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What Girls Said 5
would they like banging you? sure, they'd love it. be in a relationship with you? that may be a different story. depends how mature you are, if you are a typical 21 year old, probably not so much. If you are more mature than a typical 21 year old, maybe...1
They will definitely go after you no matter your age, as long as you're hot lol. Just be careful with them Latino men that loooove to sweet talk. Unless you want a fling then go for it, otherwise it won't turn serious.0
Of course they would, as for where it will go, who knows.. It may just be abit of fun and sex or could turn into a relationship x1
Of course they would :P
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