So I asked him why he deleted all his photos. He used to have photos of his vacation with his family, of him and his friends, and of me and him with lovely captions.
He said "I don't see a point in sharing photos with people many of whom may not be happy for you. Everyone who is blessed is envied, and I want to be discreet about the things happening in my life so that I am not envied"
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Most Helpful Guy
1) YOU are crazy that are unsure about your very husband and have to quesion and find his sanity on an internet poll.
2) he was crazy to post them in the first place. never saw the meaning in it.2
Most Helpful Girl
No of course not, he is just actually seeing how stupid social media sites really are and it doesn't help that people claim you have something to hide and are a freak because now there are "expected standards" of what you should even be doing online and if you don't do what everyone in the "popular culture" does then your suddenly "not normal" and "crazy" but the truth is all these people ARE the stupid ones and putting themselves in potential danger, there are FAR too many horrible people and psycos online who will take your photos, stalk your profile and use it for degrading means.
In the past i had guys who took my photos without asking, created a picture out of it and put his name then loves with a heart around my face then my name and i didn't even know then, on top of that the only reason guys ask for your photo is to jack off to it eww... bloody weirdos... and if you even so much as have a web cam guys will never leave you alone and constantly keep asking you to go on it, i've unplugged my web cam and kept it in my draw since because of this, it was turning into a nightmare because of the driver guys can see i have a cam. Then i had to stop talking to people altogether on chats and a few other sites where i deleted my accounts altogether because of a guy i met on one of them phoned the cops on me who over-exaggerated something i had by 100 times more... at that point id had enougb because even the cops were trying to escalate it and get me annoyed.
Then i ended up taking all my photos off all pages except FB where only certain people can see them that are in a list i created for only people who can handle what i say, but i took all information about me off everything including my home town, it's just not safe on the internet and people have to recognize the dangers and non of these people online are your friends,,, you don't know them and you never will meet them but even if you do you could never maintain the friendship, then people in your town use it to nosy and create gossip, it's just more trouble than it's worth... He's definitely smart and honestly a keeper because most people are too self-obsorbed to realize this, they say "no i won't take it off because that means i'm shaming myself, i won't be ashamed of who i am", as if it's real life *snigger* it's all an illusion sadly for them. It's time people go out in the real world again and off social media.1