I went on a dinner date at a nice restaurant with this guy and we had food etc etc anyways after dinner he pulled out his wallet and he asked if I was was going to pay and I told him no and that I left my wallet at home (which I did) but then I said "Besides you're the guy, you should pay." Is that sexist?
- Yes, very sexist46% (12)54% (19)51% (31)Vote
- Kind of sexist.23% (6)23% (8)23% (14)Vote
- No, not at all.15% (4)9% (3)11% (7)Vote
- I don't consider that sexist, but I can see why others would.16% (4)14% (5)15% (9)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
Yep. Imagine if he said "you're the woman, you should clean the house", would you consider that sexist?
Saying someone has to do something because of their gender (even worse when it's something the do for YOU and that YOU are benefiting from) is sexist.
I would have paid my part and leave your sexist ass at the restaurant.0
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Most Helpful Girl
Yes it's sexist you should always try to pay and offer him money back. However, if he accepts money when you attempt to offer it back to him break up with him then and there because he's not worth your time.8