We've had sex a couple times we've gone on some great dates our personalities match up perfectly and he has been so sweet doing nice things for me and has respectable to me even after sex. He even has told me ideas for future dates but he hasn't said when. Well he had a rough 48 hours at work and I didn't hear from him but he message me and apologized for not responding sooner. After a couple texts about his license being reinstated I ask "come get me lol" he said "I would but I have a long weekend ahead 😣" and he went to bed. This morning I message him again and said well if you find time It'd be nice to see you but it's entirely up to you and either way I hope you have a stress free day at work and I'll ttyl. He hasn't gotten ahold of me yet he might reply he might not but he hasn't asked to see me and while he is still maintaing contact it's not much noting sweet in a few days and seems I'm coming in last. Granted he's working he's a busy guy and has never been a great communicator we have pursued each other equally and I'm being as patient as possible but I figured if he was truly interested he'd find a way. I really don't want to screw this up though and hoping for the best!
Is he uninterested in seeing me again?
What Guys Said 1
What Girls Said 1
If he's not actively pursuing you and asked you out on dates or at the very least tries to contact you often,, he's not that interested. Unless he's literally busy at work the entire day and has no free time in any way shape or form, he will find a moment to talk if you're a priority. I doubt you did anything to screw up. Sounds like he's just not commited enough to put in a effort.2
Select as Most Helpful Opinion?
You cannot undo this action. The opinion owner is going to be notified and earn 7 XPER points.