turn off... i was seeing a guy when i was 20 and he was 35 and he was so fixated the fact i was 20 and he'd always mention it. he was hot and all but i was creeped out so i just stopped seeing him. nothing worst then a guy wanting to be with you cause of your age, the first person to date/have sex with, race... whatever happened to dating for just being you
Sounds more like you wanna be the first one to plant the flag. I wonder if you'd still like her after a few months, when the novelty of being the first is gone. If I was the girl, I wouldn't even waste my time talking to you.
Tbh lots of guys are like that but they sometimes dont admit it. Some girls like it when girls are hard to get OR hasn't ever got a boyfriend before. It adds more of a challenge to them. BUT something I should tell you. If you ever became bf/gf thing dont leave her just coz u managed to get her. That hurts like hell. I said this because some guys do this.
That would make me uncomfortable to know that. I would assume he is trying to have sex with an inexperienced naive girl and I would not be into it. I want a guy to like me because he is attracted to me as a person.
I hope for her sake that she doesn't get with you. You wanna be her first love? And then break her heart because once you've already done what interested you, you can't find anything else to be interested in? You're 21 years old. This isn't middle school. If you don't like a girl for her and all she has to offer, leave her alone, because she deserves better.
I find that weird because it seems like A. he wants her to be a virin B. She be clueless if what he doing in the relationship so she won't say anything because she doesn't know C. He likes clingy and attachment
Yeah I can see that as a big turn on. However I would always list her other qualities above that one. Like her hair her pretty figure, her lovely smile. Her strong character , her warm heart, her adorable personality... The girl that I'm pursuing also has not had a relationship before however that is probably last on the reasons why I want to date her. Honesty probably the mutual lose of virginity to each other on our honeymoon is higher on the list than I'm her first love.