What's your 'dating protocol'?

Like your unofficial rules of dating etc.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • -Reasonable attractive
    -Hasn't had casual sex or sent nudes to people outside of a relationship
    -hasn't slept with a player or manwhore type of guy
    -Intelligent (but not significantly more than I am)
    -Pleasant to be around
    -common interests
    -similar humor
    -doesn't drink a lot
    -doesn't do drugs

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Like what I pay special attention to?
    - their behaviour towards others (eg being rude to people in service, that's an instant deal breaker)
    - their manners
    - their style (whether they dress well & I highly appreciate it when they get dressed up for me)
    - conversation (must be entertaining & intellectually stimulating)
    - humour (shouldn't be too over the top but I don't wanna be on a date with a person being serious like they are attending a funeral)

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What Guys Said 21

  • 1) what attracts women differs from what they say they want.
    2) fun in the moment trumps being a well adjusted guy in attraction. I. e a girl will fuck a moron with no money if he is fun, rather than a guy who is well established but doesn't have that fun element about him.
    3) the PROJECTION of confidence trumps true confidence. In attraction.
    4) attraction is everything.
    ... shit I could go on all night...
    Light negging works
    Alcohol always helps
    Social status helps
    Being a tad flaky helps
    A man must lead
    ... I better stop...
    Goofy humour is repulsive, cocky humour is the best
    Intelligent convos never work. It's more current light affairs that do it. Like who is gonna win survivor?
    ... yeah I better stop.

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  • If the girl is honest, open minded, has some humor, and can be herself around me.

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  • No sex before marriage.

    You'll be treated like a person, then a princess, then a greek goddess, then a person again.

    You'll be under my protection.

    But my number one thing is that I would never be with a girl that I wouldn't be proud to walk in the door and show to my mother and father. If your not someone I wouldn't take home to see my folks then your not someone I'm gonna be with.

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  • First of all, a girl that doesn't demand without giving.
    Someone kind, funny/goofy, intelligent, attractive, vibrant... I could keep going, but these are the basics and most important.

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  • she wants me to be her exclusive right on the spot - ok, lemme try that
    she wants me to chat everyday for hours - im not down but i'll menage that
    she wants to ble flirty with other guys to keep "options open" even if we're dating - no way in hell, eject
    she's dating other guys and me - eject
    she's having sex with other guys and she said that to me - eject
    she's rude, unpolite and disrispectful - eject
    she's been promiscous and she's proud of it - eject
    she's a feminist (IE hating men but liking dicks) - im outta here

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  • Not dated yet, but here's my two cents;
    For a serious date not much sleeping around with other guys.
    No drugs besides alcohol, coffee, or legit prescription.
    She's gotta show some interest in me, i. e. I can't be the driving force behind the entire date.
    Nobody pays on the first date
    That's it. The rest are just guidelines 😆

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  • 1. good looking
    2. didn't EVER cheat
    3. 100% promiscuous free (say no to casual sex)
    4. Did not have any 'problems' with guys
    5. Doesn't hate guys, doesn't say that all guys are jerks and so on...
    6. didn't had a boyfriend who is a dick head, wasn't "unluckly with ex-BFs"
    7. did date guys that I like
    8. isn't retarded
    9. emotionally stable
    10. did work for sth in life and has enviable achievements (isn't typical 'got everything for free because i have a pussy' woman)
    11. and probably the most important one: SHE IS HEAVILY SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO ME. The more she's into you, the more chemistry exists, the more she's loyal, less demanding, less need to maintain, and is simply happy to have you. Then she'll initiate sex and there will be less space for cheating. FYI: girls find most BFs not sexually attractive.

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  • Be good looking, have an honest and decent personality and be nice and you are perfect :) (I'm so shallow :( )

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  • K

    -No restaurants for the first couple of dates
    -Must be exciting
    -Must not bore me
    -Must be hawt

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  • Wait till @Luci92 is 18 😜😂😂

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  • Depends if I'm dating her for long term or "whatever".

    For long term she has to be loyal, good manners, intelligent etc.

    For whatever, I just improvise.

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  • Dating protocol:

    1. Must be THICC, including that ass
    2. Must have a likeable personality
    3. Good hygien
    4. Can twerk
    5. Be independent

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  • i observe her first how she talks to people
    how she dresses
    how big are her breasts and ass
    than i make a plan dpending on that
    is she worth the effort or no

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    • 3mo

      How she dresses? Kifech :p

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    • 3mo

      He didn't say no, he told me fools around girls and that he is too corrupted for me and honestly, all the guys in Tunisia are not virgins, so I guess I can turn a blind eye on it :p
      Not all girls are materialistic, look how many girls get married in a Baladiya nowadays

    • 3mo

      @ElissaDido its an understanding between bride and groom
      we rarely see a marriage between two differnt social class
      the women is usually has less money
      gender double standards exist a lot here

  • A girl that likes fun and live life. Love free spirits. She must be an atheist as well.

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  • No movies on the first few dates.

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  • someone normal and isn't stuck up

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  • One and only one
    Don't fuck up.

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  • Bringing flowers

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  • Step 1: Find her hot
    Step 2: Walk over to her
    Step 3: Take out dick
    Step 4: -
    Step 5: Profit!

    Works every time like a charm.

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  • Sex on the first date, pretty much it.

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  • HONESTY
    HYGIENE
    YOU CANNOT HAVE BEEN AROUND THE BLOCK BECAUSE THAT IS GROSS
    APPROACHABLE
    LOVE TO LAUGH
    GOAL ORIENTED

    ETC...

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What Girls Said 8

  • - obviously no sex
    - No kissing
    -the place has to be public
    - Good intentions

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    • 3mo

      You don't kiss at all when your dating?

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    • 3mo

      @Phoenix98 I've never been to a date haha
      But I want to take precautions, for example the guy I'm talking to right now told me he kissed dozens of girl and he didn't love any single one of them, if he kissed 40 girls, I don't want to be number 41 so I take kissing very seriously , not as seriously as sex but it's not something casual :p

    • 3mo

      Hah I know I just meant the question like I didn't know if that was a cultural thing or personal thing.

      You should take precautions kissing is important and a first kiss ever there will never be another moment like it ever.

      And yeah that's a major red flag /= you also said another time he's had sex, fooled around and flirts with a lot of girls. Don't turn a blind eye to this guy's faults just because you like him and he's kind to you, handsome and rich. Just because others share his faults does not excuse him of his own.

      And I'm sorry if I'm being intrusive lol, I just get these vibes off people sometimes and the one I'm getting now isn't good, just don't want to see you get needlessly hurt.

  • My #1 rule is never to go out with someone I wouldn't want to take home to my mother. The rest is just details.

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  • Anyone that is fine with a girl that has tattoos and bi-sexual. Also she or him need to be outgoing and nice.

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  • 1. Black and white race 😜
    2. 17-28 years old (only in dreams cause I'm underage and no older guy accepts me lol)
    3. Trust, honesty
    4. I'll pay 😎

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  • I like younger girls that are smart, hot, and like the same interests that I do

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  • A younger guy that likes cowgirls and loves being kinky

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  • I only date girls that have a sense of style

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  • Guys that like the outdoors and are younger than me

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