Like your unofficial rules of dating etc.
Most Helpful Guy
-Hasn't had casual sex or sent nudes to people outside of a relationship
-hasn't slept with a player or manwhore type of guy
-Intelligent (but not significantly more than I am)
-Pleasant to be around
-doesn't drink a lot
-doesn't do drugs
Most Helpful Girl
Like what I pay special attention to?
- their behaviour towards others (eg being rude to people in service, that's an instant deal breaker)
- their manners
- their style (whether they dress well & I highly appreciate it when they get dressed up for me)
- conversation (must be entertaining & intellectually stimulating)
- humour (shouldn't be too over the top but I don't wanna be on a date with a person being serious like they are attending a funeral)1