-Reasonable attractive -Hasn't had casual sex or sent nudes to people outside of a relationship -hasn't slept with a player or manwhore type of guy -Intelligent (but not significantly more than I am) -Pleasant to be around -common interests -similar humor -doesn't drink a lot -doesn't do drugs
Like what I pay special attention to? - their behaviour towards others (eg being rude to people in service, that's an instant deal breaker) - their manners - their style (whether they dress well & I highly appreciate it when they get dressed up for me) - conversation (must be entertaining & intellectually stimulating) - humour (shouldn't be too over the top but I don't wanna be on a date with a person being serious like they are attending a funeral)
1) what attracts women differs from what they say they want. 2) fun in the moment trumps being a well adjusted guy in attraction. I. e a girl will fuck a moron with no money if he is fun, rather than a guy who is well established but doesn't have that fun element about him. 3) the PROJECTION of confidence trumps true confidence. In attraction. 4) attraction is everything. ... shit I could go on all night... Light negging works Alcohol always helps Social status helps Being a tad flaky helps A man must lead ... I better stop... Goofy humour is repulsive, cocky humour is the best Intelligent convos never work. It's more current light affairs that do it. Like who is gonna win survivor? ... yeah I better stop.
You'll be treated like a person, then a princess, then a greek goddess, then a person again.
You'll be under my protection.
But my number one thing is that I would never be with a girl that I wouldn't be proud to walk in the door and show to my mother and father. If your not someone I wouldn't take home to see my folks then your not someone I'm gonna be with.
she wants me to be her exclusive right on the spot - ok, lemme try that she wants me to chat everyday for hours - im not down but i'll menage that she wants to ble flirty with other guys to keep "options open" even if we're dating - no way in hell, eject she's dating other guys and me - eject she's having sex with other guys and she said that to me - eject she's rude, unpolite and disrispectful - eject she's been promiscous and she's proud of it - eject she's a feminist (IE hating men but liking dicks) - im outta here
Not dated yet, but here's my two cents; For a serious date not much sleeping around with other guys. No drugs besides alcohol, coffee, or legit prescription. She's gotta show some interest in me, i. e. I can't be the driving force behind the entire date. Nobody pays on the first date That's it. The rest are just guidelines 😆
1. good looking 2. didn't EVER cheat 3. 100% promiscuous free (say no to casual sex) 4. Did not have any 'problems' with guys 5. Doesn't hate guys, doesn't say that all guys are jerks and so on... 6. didn't had a boyfriend who is a dick head, wasn't "unluckly with ex-BFs" 7. did date guys that I like 8. isn't retarded 9. emotionally stable 10. did work for sth in life and has enviable achievements (isn't typical 'got everything for free because i have a pussy' woman) 11. and probably the most important one: SHE IS HEAVILY SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO ME. The more she's into you, the more chemistry exists, the more she's loyal, less demanding, less need to maintain, and is simply happy to have you. Then she'll initiate sex and there will be less space for cheating. FYI: girls find most BFs not sexually attractive.