I'm a bit of a shy guy, so I'm not the best at keeping the conversation going, but I've been on enough dates now that I'm seeing a pattern. All the girls I've dated are boring too. I mean I do my best to get the conversation flowing, but they don't help out at all. The never elaborate on things, their isn't hardly anything they're passionate about it's ridiculous. I'm still dying to go on a date with a girl who's full of life and will talk my ear off the whole time. I haven't found one yet. Most of my dates are online, so maybe that's why. They probably are shy too.
Most Helpful Girl
Personally I can be extremely talkative but I have to find a guy I love talking to to do that, or if I find us to have chemistry and compatibility my mouth will just go on about any subject (usually deep ones).
The issue is that a lot of guys seem to like small talk and get weirded out by discussions or deep talk so I find myself to struggle at times, especially on dates I can come across as too open for many.
If I don't see myself to have any chemistry with you friends or relationship wise my mouth often goes shut for the most part.
Asking a girl why she isn't talking a lot or why she's silent is one of the worst things you can do though, even moreso if you are the shy type yourself.
To get her to open up more you have to be open as well, and you have to make them feel comfortable, and look interested every time she speaks so she feels like opening up more because she knows you'll listen.
There have been cases where I've been talking to a guy and he talked and talked and then asked me why I'm so silent, so eventually I told him this really interesting crazy story that happened in my life but when I spoke he just seemed so disinterested that I didn't even feel like talking to him anymore.2
Most Helpful Guy
Women are taught to look pretty and let men lead. I agree most women are boring 😴😴😴2