Girls who are in their mid twenties, do they get teased a lot about not being married or having a boyfriend? Especially if they are Asian? How does this make them feel?
I was talking to this girl my age, I liked her and was just making small talk. We were at a festival, and one of the stalls was about marriage luck. Her parents came up and teased her she needed to go there... Right infront of me... I think she was embarrassed because after that she completely stopped talking to me... Even though I tried talking to her again later. She was embarrassed right?
Most Helpful Girl
If she was Chinese there is a strong possibility that her parents are traditional and they expect her to be married at a certain given time. Teasing at this point is not funny as its very difficult and never recking for a person who came from a traditional home who's not following traditional standards.
Girls in general do get teased a lot by people who expect them to be married or get married period. Especially if she is considered 'attractive' by a lot of people. If she refuses marriage and a boyfriend overall, she may get shunned. And it can be quite embarrassing. It really doesn't matter where she is from or where she leaves. Tradition will always follow her and bind her to a way of living she doesn't want to live, or can't for the sake that there is nobody she can meet those expectations with. One who won't also stigmatize her as well.2
Most Helpful Guy
It depends but usually it is done by the parents or their freinds that just got into a relationship with someone, or a busy body freind.
They don't like it. Being teased about it is kind of like being teased that your to short or to tall. They can't control it. They just have to find a guy they like and after a while maybe marry him. It is really embarrassing to them especially when they are with a guy that they like. TO them it is like hey you found a guy hurry up and marry him!. Wait a while and try talking to her again.0