We been on 2 dates. On the first date, I wore my wash n go. On the second I had a high bun and my edges were stubborn and only partially laid... and he comments "its nice to see natural texture of your hair instead of the curls" I told him my hair curls on its on with water, but I dont think he believed me. Then he meets my mom and says he loves her hair, she must me mixed with something else. I already told him My mom is native American (we are registered to a tribe ) but it possible another race mixed in with the past? So I consider myself black and native American because my father side. Anyway, is it worth it to explain there are many hair textures, and ALL of them are good, and not all black people, mixed or otherwise, have 4c afros?
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It is pretty silly that he is acting like he knows more about your hair then you do... it's your body, you are the expert. You can definitely try to explain to him that there are different hair textures and they're all okay. He might just be honestly ignorant, so you can teach him that black people don't necessarily all have 4c afros, but if he still seems to have an attitude with you then I don't think he's worth the effort.0