Basically it was all going well onto a fourth date and she took something said the wrong way. She than said due to her hectic lifestyle she said we should wait for a little while and that she can't take things further at this moment in time. She never said leave me alone or don't contact me and her tone in the message sounded sad. The problem is she's gone back on the datings it after i have being doing no contact for 10 days. I know the standard no contact is 30 days but thats for relationships, so which of the above is best?
- 10 DaysVote A
- 14 DaysVote B
- 17 DaysVote C
- 21 DaysVote D
Most Helpful Girl
She blew you off man, she gave you that bs story.. her life his hectic and she can't take things further.. right.. so if your life is so "hectic" right now why is she even dating or went back to dating sites? Please. Whatever you said must ran away or she wasn't serious.. that's why she's back to dating sites. She still looking and keeping her options open. 10 days is way to long, cut it down to 2 or 3 at least0
Most Helpful Guy
It's not like that bro!!! You're dating! This no contact, is just an immature silent treatment from you both.
Believe me, it's her way of being passive aggressive with you. I was with the queen of "taking things said the wrong way". And believe me, after we would go home, wouldn't here from her from weeks to months.
Take it from me mate, just contact her. Cause I know you want to, and you're allowing yourself not to, for pride where it's not needed. Screw the 30 day rule or 45 day rule. That for ex's usually anyway. Contact her, apologize (maybe), and ask her to talk to you. Don't lose out over pride mate.
I did 😔.0
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