If they know that i have a daughter and she's 9 years old. I had her when i was 15 and it wasn't that easy as a teen mom. I finished college and i have a good job now, nice house, and many friends. I was too busy the past couple years and i didn't date someone but i think i'm ready to do that now. But would guys date me especially if i told them my story as a teen mom?
- I'd date you62% (13)42% (16)49% (29)Vote
- No thank you38% (8)58% (22)51% (30)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
I think the real question is, should you tell them. The answer is yes. Don't start a relationship with deception or lies. It's the same thing as saying I want it to fail. Many men don't mind a child (I know because I married two women with kids). I've also dated some others with a child. I also understood the the child will always come before me and that is how it should be. Many men can't handle this even if they say they don't care. When it happens, they do. You will have men that don't because they only want their kids, not someone elses. You are in a situation where you have to see whats out there and don't take it personally if a guy has no interest. My first wife had our daughter when she was 16 years. I met her when she was 23 and her child was a 7 yr old. It's a package deal and if the guy can't love the child too, you are in trouble. As far as I'm concerned, the fact that you had your baby so young and even with all the turmoil it created in your life, you finished high school and wen't on to graduate from college. You have a good caerer. If I was you, I'd trust my judgement and deal with the disapointment you may have. I'm very confident that the rejection you may get will not stop you from finding your soul mate. He's out there, go for it.2
Most Helpful Girl
I think that story shows how strong you are and despite the past, you clearly have your life together now. If you having a 9 year old daughter is a deal breaker for any guy, then that guy is not worth your time. The right guy won't see your daughter as a problem.2