A guy I had a fling with went back to his ex ( I will call him Tim) from a year ago and I accepted it pretty fast, it hurt but I accepted it. He was one of the few guys I felt that real special bond with, I could talk to him about everything and we behaved like best friends and like we were dating even if it wasn't anything official or anything. He ignored me for about 2 weeks after that as if I did something wrong and I started talking to this guy that knew him and he has been trying to flirt with me but I rejected him because I liked "tim" and when I actually let him in I felt comfortable with him. So on Friday Tim came up to me as if nothing was wrong did our special greeting and he asked if we were going to the party and I said yeah probably and he said that he would go too, nothing special and then he just stared at me and said " You are happy again" and I just said " yeah, I am happy". At the party we greeted pretty quickly and his ex were not there suprisingly and when I met him again he said " Damn you look beautiful tonight" and I just said thank you. I talked to the other guy all night and ignored Tim because I do not feel like I need to talk to him. He tried to get my reaction by giving my friends lap dances and just said " fuck you" to me, he were rude... And when me and the guy left the party hand in hand after and I know now that he is not that happy about it. I know I should just let it go but I dont wanna lose Tim as a friend... I dont want him to hate me or anything and he makes it seem like it is my fault... what should I do , did I do something wrong?
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Tim is jealous and doesn't want you to be happy. He pretty much ignored you and went back to his ex now he's being a controlling asshole. It's not your fault and you should not be worrying about what Tim thinks. You need to worry about your own happiness. Tim is with his ex. He needs to worry about his own problems, it also sounds like Tim is unfaithful if he's giving girls lap dances and being jealous. Why would you want to please a guy who is a jerk and unfaithful?0