I met a guy at a festival and we dated all week there, holding hands, cuddling, kissing and having fun. He's a friend of friends and we went there as a group so we automatically spend time together there too.
However, I've been taking all the first steps all along. I flirted with him, kissed him, grabbed his hand first... he was eager to go on with things though, except for sex since it would be his first time. He was kinda shy but he was really sweet. At the end of the week he asked me to meet up back home sometime.
I texted him first every time we talked and now I haven't heard from him for over a week. Should I ask him on that date or wait and hope for him to take the step once, which probably won't ever happen?
And do you think he's lost interest?
Most Helpful Guy
It's really up to you. Are you prepared to continue trying with someone who is going to make little effort themselves? I don't care if a guys shy, he can't expect a girl to do everything. I've had shy friends, I used to be shy myself.. I still went up and made my move, I was shaking.. But I still did it.. lol. If for whatever reason you really like him and are prepared to continually initiate everything, then go for it. But if it was me in that situation I would move on and find someone who doesn't make you do all the work.0
Most Helpful Girl
You keep on initiating things with that person. Allow him to initiate one time. You should not be the one to constantly put an effort.0