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Yeah. The men you're looking for are afraid of rejection and then men you don't want, the man whore, have no problem asking you out. So women, not sure about you, think all men are man whores.0
Yeah. The men you're looking for are afraid of rejection and then men you don't want, the man whore, have no problem asking you out. So women, not sure about you, think all men are man whores.
OK. Good to know. I'm gonna pretend to care about your little issue here, so bear with me while my mind strains.
Have you ever considered that you're not sending the appropriate signals to guys? That maybe you're half-assing it? Here, I even wrote a Take about it.
Now, if you've sent the appropriate signals (doubt it) and have built some rapport, and you're still not getting asked out, its probably because you've killed the attraction by saying something off putting or being ugly.
If that's still not it, then they may assume you have a boyfriend/fiance/husband and aren't the type of guy to try to slam some other dudes slampiece.
So to recap,
A) you haven't signalled your availability and desire to go out with them, or
B) you ugly.
To give an answer that makes any sense, I would need more information. I can guess a number of things, but that's pointless. You are going to have to be able to look at yourself without avoiding what might be distasteful things you don't want to admit about yourself. Maybe you are overly agressive. There are lots of things and I can't tell you which it might be. Remember if there are things you do that can hurt, you always have the option of working on changeing whatever it is. It could be more than one thing. Sorry I couldn't help more.
No One is absolutely obligated to ask anyone else out. No one is entitled to be absolutely asked out by anyone else.
Sweetheart EVERYONE has problems in dating. Im short chocolate and good looking but i have a big head and I'm scared to approach. Its just life...
thank ask the guy out and stop waiting
So what's your goal here? Do you really want to go out with a guy? Or are you more out to feel wanted/ valued and crave the attention? If you really want to go out with a certain guy or what not ask him out. It's no big deal to ask him out, if he's the right guy for you he'll say yes and will lead to the same result. If its the second one just be real down to earth fun to talk to and approachable.
Is it me or does this question and the way it's worded sound a little conceited?
Is this the 1950s? You can ask them out you know.
yeah.. then if it was the opposite and every single guy you see asks you out, you'll ocme on here and complain about 'men are pigs'
Can't you ask them out? You may not understand the risk of rejection and the fact that a guy has to put himself out there. Especially if he likes you, it could be the closer for still knowing you post the question being asked?
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