I prefer to not date promiscuous men because, where do I begin lol:
-STDs -Can they even remain faithful? -We fundamentall disagree on our views of sex. And this is a lose lose for them. A Sex might only be physical for them and I don't want to be just another notch on their belt B. If the sex was intimate for them, do they still miss any of their past partners? C. Even if they can separate physical and emotional sex, how will I be so sure what category I'm in? They'll always lose with me lol -I'm insecure af and even if he actually wasn't, in my mind I'll never get over the fact that he might be comparing me to either their performance or body. And 9/10 most women are better than me with that.
So, no. Sorry promiscuous men, I don't want y'all. I don't want a virgin either though
Eh I do believe they are more likely to cheat but mostly its just that I emotionally find it really unnatractive. Its just somethng I feel in my chest.
When I think about all the different men that have came inside her it kinda makes me see them as dirty especially for oral. Like I know their semen isn't still there but it still makes me cringe.
Part of it is ego too. Like knowing that all those other men saw her as just an easy fuck or a slut and that they never had to put in any effort or make a commitment just bothers me. I don't like knowing that a bunch of guys got to see my gf/wife as just some slut they hooked up with.
I also see a relationship as having positives and negatives and the guys who had flings with her got to enjoy a lot (but not all) of the positives like seeing her naked, having sex with her, casually hanging out with her while skiping all the sacrifices , commitments, and struggles that also come along with settling down with a relationship.
Also I hate the idea of being the safe stable guy they want only when its time to buy a house and raise kids. Like if the guys they hooked up with were the comple opposite of me personality wise then I am really turned off.
And lastly ts like there's nothing I have with her that is exclusive to us. She has probably already tried out all her fantasies and done all her sexual experimentation with her previous partners.
Now I dont go out of my way to insult them or anything but I would honestly rather be indefinitely single over having to settle down with a promiscuous woman.