From what I have observed, some people find a boyfriend/girlfriend very easily while it takes others a very long time. Why is that, especially when it seems as though the ones for whom it takes a long time are seemingly perfect (very attractive, fun to be around, etc.)? This is a mere observation that I was curious about what other people thought was the root cause.
Most Helpful Guy
Just because everything seems perfect doesn't mean that everything is. Something major could be going on and they choose not to be engaged in finding a relationship. Some just choose to be single because they enjoy not having to deal with the responsibility of a relationship. Others may decide to not prioritize getting into a relationship at the top instead focusing on school or something else😋1
Most Helpful Girl
Some people find their s/o by complete chance. It might be someone who they approached or chatted up initially having no serious intentions, only to develop feelings for them shortly after. Other people will get into a relationship after making sure to take a lot of time to consider many factors beforehand.0