How do some people find significant others so quickly?

From what I have observed, some people find a boyfriend/girlfriend very easily while it takes others a very long time. Why is that, especially when it seems as though the ones for whom it takes a long time are seemingly perfect (very attractive, fun to be around, etc.)? This is a mere observation that I was curious about what other people thought was the root cause.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Just because everything seems perfect doesn't mean that everything is. Something major could be going on and they choose not to be engaged in finding a relationship. Some just choose to be single because they enjoy not having to deal with the responsibility of a relationship. Others may decide to not prioritize getting into a relationship at the top instead focusing on school or something else😋

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Some people find their s/o by complete chance. It might be someone who they approached or chatted up initially having no serious intentions, only to develop feelings for them shortly after. Other people will get into a relationship after making sure to take a lot of time to consider many factors beforehand.

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What Guys Said 2

  • People that are willing to sleep with other generally have an easier time

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  • You're probably either controlling, crazy, crazy and controlling, or boring.

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What Girls Said 1

  • Some people aren't as picky as others. Some are delusional and looking for a perfection that doesn't exist, meaning they'll never find an SO. Others can't be defined unless they are in a relationship, they will quickly replace someone so they aren't single.

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