So, it was the first day of college and as I was sitting alone on a bench, this pretty cute guy approached me and started a conversation. I'm almost 19 and he must be at least five years older than me because he said he's doing his PhD! We hit it off pretty well and I really enjoyed talking to him. He asked for my number and later texted me to ask me out to eat next week. I said sure but at the same time, I'm a little nervous about all this... I hope he's not just interested in me because he sees me as this shy, naïve young girl he can take advantage of. So I'm just wondering, is it weird that he asked me out or am I overanalyzing too much? (I tend to do that a lot.😅)
Most Helpful Guy
He could be as young as 22 or 23. You can move into the doctorate program after earning your bachelor's.
Just go out with him. If you weren't interested you wouldn't have given him your number. Don't let him take advantage of you if you're worried that's what will happen.2
Most Helpful Girl
I do not consider it weird at all. It's normal as hell.1