Hi there I'll make it short. I was with my boyfriend for six years and he broke up with me (over text) a month ago. I went straight into no contact. I'm very hurt and upset because he lives near me and I heard he doesn't care at all. So it's like he's going on that our relationship never happened. He hasn't talked to me since. When we were together we never went on holidays together, he did off course he went away every summer with friends family etc. He told me I couldn't go and if I said anything he would fight with Me. He bearly even took me on dates. He did more things with his female friend. The end of relationship was bad, he started name calling and just having no respect for me. So today I found out he's in Amsterdam with his friend. I just couldn't help but cry, he never even took me to McDonald's even, but he goes off on holidays and it's showing me he doesn't care at all about me or the relationship. He still has me on Facebook and he still has out picture up and his relationship status with me up. He also has items in his belonging to me. I'm just so upset over the whole situation. And I no he's free and single he can do whatever but I'm starting to question the whole relationship now. The last thing he said to me was 'fu*k off go find something productive to do with your life. My life is a piece of cake without you bye" we are both 25. I guess I just needed do talk and get it off my chest. Amy advice? Thank yous
Most Helpful Guy
Forget him. Sounds like he never appreciated you in the first place. Just remember, no matter what, you deserve someone who respects the wonderful person you are, at the bare minimum.1
Most Helpful Girl
I'm so sorry that he did this to you. You absolutely have a right to be upset!
I know it's hard to see it now, but you are better off without him. By the sounds of it he didn't treat you right. He didn't take you on any dates and refused to go on trips with you. I don't know about you, but I want a boyfriend who spends time with me. Not one who pretends I don't exist.
He even called you names and had no respect for you. Not someone who is a good partner.
Do yourself a favour, delete him off facebook. You do not need to know what is going on in his life as this will only hurt you more. I find a lot of times people use facebook to hurt their ex's. I've had this done to me.
My one ex got upset that I dumped him for cheating and then got into a relationship shortly after and always made posts about it. Like I'm supposed to care or something. I just deleted him and went on with my life.
He lives near me also, and always stares at me when he sees me. It's kinda weird. Like I'm just happy he is no longer my problem. My ex too didn't really take me on dates or anything. We went out a few times, but after a while he was always demanding I buy him things and drive him around. Plus he always complained about having no money (probably because he was dating half the country at that time).
I honestly think you are better off without him. Sure it hurts when relationships end. But you will find a guy who will treat you so much better!
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