my ex and i broke up but we kept hanging out for a while. now not so much, we've had a lot of space for the past few weeks. but we recently texted again and we both expressed interest in hanging out again. is this a bad or good idea? will it lead to us getting back together or just complete destruction?
Most Helpful Guy
If you still like him enough to enjoy hanging out, don't hesitate :D
Except of course, if you have someone else, than it's tricky of course :o
It's quite normal, if you've been together for some time, that you still feel a bond and enjoy being with him :D0
Most Helpful Girl
Real guys when they date, they think about marriage. He was happy dating you until he went to a wedding, realized this is not the relationship he wants to end in a marriage. He was open and honest with you. You need to accept that.
Staying in contact with him at the moment where he gets phyical benefits will hurt your feelings and gives you false hope. because you still have feelings for him and wants to get back with him.
Best thing to do for yourself is to move on. You have to have a clean break. No contact. Move on.
All our ex. experiences are diff.
But most of them, no more contact.
My last ex. wanted to be friends. I said okay... we were friends for a little... i was cool... slowly... i moved on, and he moved on. He still cares a lot about me and i still like him as a person.
Lesson... always look back and see the positive from your last relationship, bring the good to the next.