So basically I dont really like his mom and I don't think she likes me at all either. I try to avoid her. I would never tell him or anyone else this. What do u do when you don't like your boyfriends mother? My boyfriend and I are serious if that makes a difference.
Ha, well I'm not the biggest fan of my boyfriends dad. I don't hate him, we just clash, and I told my boyfriend that and he knows we aren't a natural fit.
I don't see what the harm is by saying how you feel. I told mine that me and his dad are just too different, I find him too sarcastic and grates on me, whereas his dad finds me too soft and sensitive. Sadly that's who we are. But we make an effort for each other and things have got a lot better. He's a very strange person - he really enjoys having the piss taken out of him and that's not something you do with your in laws... But I wouldn't know that's how to deal with him if I hadn't asked my boyfriend.
Be honest. Your boyfriend doesn't need to share it but he may be able to help you deal with her better.