What's your biggest sticking point with Tinder or apps like that?

What advice do you wish there would be more of between the following options...

  • Knowing exactly what pictures to post
    Vote A
  • Help with writing a better 'bio'
    Vote B
  • How to keep a conversation going
    Vote C
  • How to go from messaging to setting up a date
    Vote D
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  • None of these: solid advice on all these points already exists but only helps marginally because most of your Tinder success is completely out of your control anyway.

    I'll go over the points one by one:

    A) be attractive, don't be unattractive, and you either have perfect, social, active pictures or you don't (it's hard to take them on purpose)

    B) bios barely matter (especially if you're a girl), except for some extreme cases, pointing to someone's bio as a problem is just a way of rationalizing away the fact that only the pictures matter

    C) it'll keep going by itself if both of you are interested, and you have no way of knowing what a stranger's preferred way of talking is anyway

    D) same as C


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What Girls Said 3

  • I've never used anything like that

  • I don't know what you mean about sticking point?

    But all of those are pretty easy to do.

  • Definitely writing a bio. But Option c sounds pretty good too.


What Guys Said 1

  • How to go from messaging to setting up a date

    • Its really easy, you wait for a high point in conversation then say hey we should meet up, lets go to x place at x time. Bam, done. If she's enjoying talking, she'll almost always say yes or suggest another time.