Been chatted and video called with this guy for a few months.
Originally I want him to come visit me. But due to some reasons, that day will be postponed for few more months.
Thus he asked if I can go and visit him and he will pay for all my flight tickets and expenses. He wants me to be with him to know each other more since we have been chatted for a period of time and he says he likes me, just we both agreed that meeting is the only way to see if it really works between us.
We are far apart in different countries and continents.
Do you think I should go?
What would you do?
He wants an answer soon to plan the visit, please share your thoughts!
Thanks a lot!
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No. I would never go to a different country in a different continent to meet some guy from the internet that I do not know with no one there to have my back should things go wrong. Especially not if I was mainly financially dependent on him for my trip home and lodging while I'm there. Depending on a man to cover your expenses can put you in a situation where you can be manipulated or you have to do things you may not be comfortable with in order to have your financial needs met. No woman should ever put herself in that position.
Not only that, but three months is not enough time to know that you can truly trust him. You barely even know this guy. I would not recommend doing this at all2
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