Some of my friends had them and they were normal before but I feel worthless and cheap. The guy that I had sex with, was very nice and talked with me a lot before even tried to kiss me. After that, he just went to sleep without saying too much and he did not ask for my number or anything else.
It really hurts me that he was so cold because I really liked him.
I had a one night about a month ago, the guy was cute and genuinely cared if I was okay before we started as well. Given, he was drunk. However the next morning he was extremely rude. Normally I would never stay the night but he insisted and I was drunk anyways. The next morning I felt like shit. I think it's just because today's society looks down upon girls in this sense. But really, you're going to be damned if you do or damned if you don't. If you wanted the one night (emphasis one night hun) be happy! You got what you came for, and be thankful it was with a decent guy instead of an asshole.
Hell I feel worthless when I DON't have a one night stand after awhile. The idea is to not get attached to them or know them too much (other than maybe they are in fact free of STD's like their ad said) before fucking them. But since you are a female you would probably generally find that difficult.
Well you did cheap things for sure but if you regret it dong dver do it again... ONS are not for everyone... People who waana sleep around do it cause they are like that and they don't feel guilty about it..
Yes. It is a damaging psychological experience. I advise against it.
Yes its normal. Feminists would have women behave like men when the truth is that men and women are different not just physically but emotionally too. You feel worthless and cheap because you let yourself be used as a worthless and cheap cum bucket. Next time aim for a relationship and get to know a guy well before you have sex, believe me if he's serious about you he will hang around if you dont have sex right away if not he won't waste his or your time trying to bed. Chalk it up to a mistake that won't happen again as you have more respect for yourself.
I'm so sorry that you had this experience! Maybe one night stands are just not for you? Just because your friends are having them, doesn't mean that you should, nor does it mean you will enjoy them.
I think it can be hard when we hear our friends doing things, to not want to at least try them. But it's okay if you aren't into one night stands. Sounds to me like you value a connection and see sex as part of an emotional connection. I am the same way. It's completely normal.
Some people can't just have sex with someone and have it mean nothing. So maybe don't try for a one night stand. Or if you do, try to understand that it may not mean anything to the other person.
Why do women get the crazy idea that after letting a guy use them on a one night stand that he is going to have any genuine feelings for them? I worry that my own sex can be so dumb when it comes to sex.