I asked this guy if he was planning on meeting up with me, because we've been talking for a month and every time I ask to meet up he is hesitant (long story) and he said he was planning on meeting up with me but he doesn't know when. it could be a week a month etc. He said he was interested in me. He says he has been busy with work and especially after taking a break he has a lot of work to catch up on. I just think if you were interested in someone you would make time to meet up with them, or am I just overthinking this?
Most Helpful Guy
If someone's interested, they find time.
Most Helpful Girl
I have recently been in this situation and I think people don't understand where truly busy people are coming from. I was talking to a guy who worked full time saving money at a fast food place because he needed it to travel and play shows come fall; in his spare time his band needed him because they were making a new album for when they tour. He didn't want to meet me and not give me the time I deserved. I accepted it and I know he is interested in me, but I have to understand that right now I am not his priority because he doesn't even know me, so it makes sense that he puts himself and career first. So, I disagree. When the timing is right, it's right. Just have faith things will work out.1