To scared to get one and fear rejection.. or probably just waiting to be approached instead of doing the approaching. Could be their personalities too.. maybe they come on to strong, maybe not strong enough, maybe to socially awkward.. who knows it could be anything really.
they have fears, they have personality disorders, anxiety disorders, anger problems, or they really don't know what they want in life and they are confused which lowers their confidence and thus it deters women
Because he's shy and never asked a girl out lol. Or he could be a perfectionist, and is looking for the most perfect woman (doesn't exist). Or he asked a girl out, got rejected, then decided that it's not worth it. There could be millions of reasons.
- Maybe he's too shy or introverted and doesn't actually put forth the effort to go out and meet women. Women generally expect men to do the approaching, so he can't just sit on his hands and expect to get a girlfriend. Only one gender gets to do that and that slot is firmly locked up by women for the rest of eternity.
- Maybe he's fat or ugly.
- Maybe he isn't financially stable.
- Maybe he has a shitty personality. People with shitty personalities can still get laid, but not necessarily always turn that into long lasting relationships.
- Maybe he had shitty success for various reasons as a teenager/early 20's and now he just feels like he's already branded as a loser virgin in his mid 20s, so there's no real point in trying all that hard.
A lot of single guys I know have standards that are way too high. They are not willing to make a compromise for the sake of not being lonely. Nobody should feel resigned to having to only date ugly people. But these guys almost have a shopping list of traits the girl needs to have. Everytime they meet a girl they say things like: Her boobs are too small/big Her butt is the wrong shape she's too tall/short She wears the wrong clothes etc etc etc
These guys need to accept that there is beauty in all body types. Fit, healthy girls come in all different combinations of traits and the guys that are able to appreciate them all are the ones who get more pussy.
If you have tried to get a girlfriend, but have been constantly rejected, then you don't understand where you are in the pecking order.
This advice works for anyone: Find out what kind of girl likes the kind of guy you are. What characteristics do you have that some woman would want? This can be relative to her, so don't think you have to be super rich or good looking (rich works better than looks).
Once you figure out what kind of woman is looking for a guy like you, then go look for them where they hang out (what kind of online site).
In my case, repeated rejections, crippling self-esteem issues (arising from the aforementioned rejections), no real guidance about proper practices in dating and relationships and in general bad luck, combined with a unique collection of personality traits/flaws that make dating even more challenging.