I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 mons, but we've been close friends for over a year. I had my first kiss with him, and freakin loved it. But after he finally got a chance to officially ask my dad to date me, my dad told him: no kissing, no cuddling, pretty much we can't do anything. I want to respect my parents and I'm not super eager to do stuff behind their backs. But I really want to be able to kiss my boyfriend, especially the few times I get to see him. Is it a good idea to wait a few months to make sure this is what we want, and if so; then kiss. Even if my parents don't agree and we have to do it behind their backs?
Just don't kiss. Period. Your parents rules.
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Wait a few mons to be sure. Even if they don't agree.
If your not able to control yourself when kissing, it can lead to sex. Which i am sure that is not what your parents wants. it doesn't matter at this point your still underneath your parents rules, and underage at 16. If you don't obey, and they sensed that you did something, they will force you two to break up, get grounded, or God forbid kick you out IF your rebellious. So yes, it is a good idea to wait a few months if it lasts that long as see where it goes. Overall I personally believe your parents just doesn't want you having sex, because they can't trust you if you will make the right choice. If you say you respect your parents, no means no. If you do the opposite, do you think your respecting and honoring your parents? Honoring and obedience also means love.
I don't think it's the kissing the are actually worried about. Teenage hormones are all over the place and kisses can become heated. At your age, you could lose control and it could lead to sex, something your parents obviously don't want you to do at your age. Respect your parents wishes but talk to your mom. Explain that he is your boyfriend and that you should be trusted a little.