I only work a zero hours contract so in probably in work about 3/4 times a month but I really fancy a guy I work with. I'm 18 and he is 23 but because of how my work is situated and how massive it is we barely get any time to have a chat or for me to get to know him. I want to add him on Facebook but does this sound too desperate? Just to try and get to know him more but at the moment I only know him on a colleague level?
Most Helpful Guy
Funnily enough, I was in a similar situation. I am 22 now, but will turn 23 in October and the girl I was dating is 18, like you.
Age wise, there is nothing wrong with it. It had crossed my mind a couple of times, since there is obviously a somewhat big difference. But in the end, of both people are into it for the right reasons, there is no harm in it.
You definitely should add him on Facebook. I have yet to meet a guy who lost interest in a girl because she added him on Facebook. Furthermore, if he is interested, it will only be a (very) pleasant surprise that you did add him. There is something about being approach by a girl that feel great.
Most Helpful Girl
No, it doesn't sound desperate at all, it's not like you're a complete stranger. After all you're his colleague. Add him.1