So I have been dating a guy online for a year now. I am technically 16. So the guy wants me to come see him on my 16th birthday and he said he will pay for everything. I really want to get away from home for awhile and I guess that is the best way. I have never video chatted him and we argue sometimes but that is what happens with a long distance relationship. Should I go through with it? I am going insane here looking after my 3 bad nephews and my 3 bad nieces.
Yes if you love them. Ask to video chat first and if they don't want to then reconsider it and respond with something like "if we meet up we will see each other's faces anyway". And if you do go meet this person take a parent or a friend to be around not to be with you but just in case. Also don't hide it from your parents, #1 worst thing to do when meeting someone you've never seen
Honestly, I see a lot (A LOT) of problems here: -You're "technically" 16 (i. e. You're definitely still considered a minor). You've been dating for a year, so IF he's older, whatever he's been doing with you for a year now has been illegal. -Okay, you're going to visit him on your 16th birthday, but you never specified how old the guy is. For all we know, he's a 50 year-old man looking to take advantage of a 16 year-old girl. -I see red flags with the statement: "He'll pay for everything": He's either an extremely desperate man, and/or he's SHADY --i. e. He'll pay for "everything," like a one-way ticket and keep you "hostage". -You have never met each other in person, yet you argue already? That says that even with limited contact, you guys still find things to argue about. This doesn't sound healthy... at all.