Before i say anything i do realise that at some point you gotta show some signs of interest or else it will fail.
Iam naturally the kind of person who doesn't really go out of his way to say hi or approach others unless iam really in the mood, super happy or iam gaining something from it, some guys like to say hi left and right i dont...
i've noticed through try and error that no matter how hot or smart a girl is ignore her long enough and act like you dont notice when she's around and she will (after a certain amount of time that differs from girl to girl) do her best to get a reaction out of you and talk to you, some will do more and actually give you a number or something , but talking to you is always guaranteed.
me as a guy, if i feel a girl is even slightly stuck up or she ignoers me i won't talk to her again until she talks to me , and from experience most guys would do the same, guys dont care, girls , if ignored long enough will do their best to get the guys attention especially if they find him good looking.
do you agree? I have many exammples but iam interested in yours.
Here's what I think. Women (and I'm sure a lot of guys might feel this way too) can't stand slobbering puppy-dog guys who shower them with smothering attention. If a guy comes on too strong and is always being available to be walked all over, a woman will think the fun in the chase is over. It's a bit of a thrill to be batting back and forth the signals that lets the other person know you're interested.
Outright ignoring isn't so cool. But showing some signs and then allowing the girl to digest what you've said or done to see how she reacts is part of the fun.
I know guys complain all the time, "I do this, I do that, I open doors, I crawl across hot coals!! They never talk to me!!" It's because trying to hard is a bit uncool and women love the cool, secure types. If a guy doesn't seem like he needs much to feel confident and happy who he is, the more attractive. But if he adds to that a little flirtatious look or remark, then backs off (without ignoring), then he'll probably find he'll have more luck attracting women.
Well, if a guy I'm not romantically interested in starts to ignore me, I'd still behave normally towards him. Id still say hi to him and ask him how he's doing and stuff. It wouldn't bother me. I'd make him see how friendly I really am. If I like the guy and he starts to ignore me, then I'd instantly start ignoring him as well... maybe cause I don't wanna give him the impression that im desperate or madly in love with him or overly attached. Now that I'm thinking about it, I might give the wrong impression to the guy that I don't like and is ignoring me... and yes, he might think I like him cause id be talking to him when he's ignoring me and showing zero interest in me. But then again, I can't hide it when I have a crush on someone... it becomes pretty obvious to almost everyone :/ oh well.. Now I'm just blabbing..
i somewhat agree. some guys just think ignoring and playing games is how you get the girls and i think that's just bullshit, i mean why not just keep it real. playing games is just a waste of time and it's stupid. If i guy ignores me constantly or keeps it going with dumb stuff like that i give up on him and find someone who will talk to me and treat me better
Disagree. This is as stupid as girls trying to get a guy to chase them. What makes it even worse is that you acknowledge that, when a girl does this to you, you lose interest and never want to talk to them again. So why would you think that it would work on them? Granted there are differences between the two sexes, but they aren't a different species.
People like or begin to like those who like, or appear to like, them; they also dislike or begin to dislike those who dislike, or appear to dislike, them. Chances are if you ignore them, before meeting them, they will never notice you and remain indifferent to you.
There's a difference between ignoring a girl and not being anxious. Girls like a guy who is friendly to them and isn't obviously trying to get with them (unless the girl really wants that guy), in my experience.
What was the point of asking this question is all you're gonna say is you disagree and girls won't admit it. Seems like you're pretty biased about it already. Personally games don't interest me, I don't like it. Rather have something straight forward.
Obviously you have to talk to them and get their attention and get them interesteded. However just don't make yourself too available. Like don't run up to then everytime you see them, let the girl come to you sometimes.