So one of my ex's got back in touch with me and now she has me obsessed with her. There are a couple of problems with this:
1. There is a reason she is my ex.
2. I know that she is involved with at least one other person.
3. When I get to thinking about it I've literally nothing in common with her.
4. I'm currently involved with the love of my life.
5. Just to add emphasis on one I know she is bad news.
So I Have no clue why or how I got in this problem but some how I have gotten obsessed with her like she gave me a tiny taste of why I dated her in the first place and now my mind is hooked on her and the logical part is screaming to stop but my nonlogical part is saying that if I give her another shot I'll be able to fix problems 1 through 5. I wish I knew what I did but this is not even a gray problem, it's black and white, she is bad news stay away. My mind is too fogged with her to let me see it that way and I don't know why
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Well you already gave yourself the best advice. Stay away. Cut her out of your life completely. Now how do you go about that? Realize she's just fucking with your head, probably instinctively using hot/cold mechanics to get you obsessed over her, not to mention making you jealous by being with someone else.
Just remind yourself that it's all just one massive head fuck, and you have no business nor logical desire to be with her. It's your ego vs. your id.1