My dad (white) told me to tell my sister not to bring her boyfriend (black) to my uncle's wedding but he didn't say nothing about my boyfriend (Mexican) and he even offered my boyfriend to try out his "2k dollar suit" Like wtf, my sister isn't good looking at all and she's never had a boyfriend before until now at age 24.. I would think that my dad would be more upset for a 9/10 white girl like me dating a 8/10 Mexican boy. But no, he's happy with it.. Shouldn't my dad be happy that my sis finally found happiness? ? He fricken calls me to tell me to convince my sis to go to the wedding alone to "look" more professional among our relatives.(unbelievable) Im gunna go with the thought that he had a bit too much to drink that time.. Why is my dad accepting my boyfriend but not my sis boyfriend? ? What is the difference? ? How should i tell my sister?
1mo I need to add that my dad has met my sisrer's boyfriend and he is nice to him however he has never invited him or his fam over for a bbq or a party.. And my dad HAS invited my boyfriend's fam over for food..
Dont know about racist, but reading that.. I think you just might be the shallowest person in your whole family.
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"my sister isn't good looking at all" That comment was completely unnecessary. Also, claiming that you're 9/10 makes you appear sort of shallow. As to why your dad did that, ask him. He probably has racist views towards black people but not towards mexicans.
Sounds like he' doesn't want the rest of the family to see that his kid is dating a black dude. People can be racist to a single ethnicity. Him liking your Latino boyfriend is irrelevant. Don't get involved in this, don't tell you sister unless she asks you. Your dad has a problem with who your sister is bringing to this uncles wedding? Let him talk her and try explaining to her why not. Let him simply un-invite the guy himself. Personally, i wouldn't bother going to the wedding anymore. If your uncle asks why just tell him. I doubt they'll ask.
We don't know the situation. Maybe your uncle is racist and your dad doesn't want a fight. Maybe her boyfriend is a total thug, black or not. Maybe he has already hurt your sister and your dad no longer approves of their relationship.
Ok...😧 the fact that you used a rating system to describe yourself goes to show you that you are NOT*Maury voice* (haha) in fact a chick. Know woman refers to herself like that. Secondly say this were true... she's a grown fu*king woman... therefore your father's opinions of her and her boyfriend shouldn't even affect her life at this point. #VulcanSalute
I dated a Mexican boy years ago and my dad surprisingly accepted him.. My dad would not accept blacks, Asians of even eastern men. And he has said it to me lol.. I think that your dad is just embarrassed by your sis dating a black. If black men didn't have such a bad reputation it would be different. Another thing is mixed babies are a lot cuter with Hispanic or Asian.. anything that is not black.. I think pure black babies are better looking than mixed