NOTE: This strictly applies to people who are not in a relationship and are in the early stages of dating.
So so there's this girl I started seeing who I feel a strong connection with. We have a lot in common as far as tastes in music, movies, etc go. She's very attractive and our conversations flow very well.
So far we've had 2 dates that have been amazing. I'm not trying to put her on a pedestal but it's good to find someone to talk about your interests with and be able to enjoy the same activities with.
Im not in love with her but she's definitely someone I can see myself with.
Only thing is she did tell me she got out of a 5 year relationship where she lived with the guy a few months ago. But she hasn't brought him up or complained about anything.
While its it's too early to be exclusive, I still have feelings for her but keep wondering if I should keep options open or not.
Her dating profile is still active as is mine, and even though I like her, I don't wanna rush her into anything as she's newly single.
Its just from my experience with online dating, women flake easily so I wonder if I should keep my options open.
Ever get in a situation like this? Usually with most women I meet, I try to feel it out.
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Yeah I'm in that kind of situation right now. I really do like him, but right now it feels more like friends. Deep down I just know, that he is someone I could spend the rest of my life with, it's just there is something missing. Maybe we didn't meet at the right moment or I don't know what.
I told him the truth, it helped me a lot, and he knew what he was gonna get by talking to me. Right now I'm really satisfied with being his friend. I can see a future, but not at this current moment. Maybe I'm not ready to get tied down, or want to keep my options open, I have no idea.
So yes, I got in a situation like this.
All I can say is, be honest with that girl, don't leave her hanging.
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