So I went to a co-ed high school and now go to a co-ed college and I've never done anything with a guy. Haven't even held hands. I'm 18 and I know I'm overweight and average looking. My aunts say I'm just super shy so that's why guys don't notice me, but my roomate is super shy and she has a boyfriend. Is something wrong with me?
Nothing is wrong with you. You are complety normal. Dont believe the hype of teen drama shows and all the things ur friends go through. I just took a poll on gag and the results showed that most of the people who took it, myself included lost our virginity at 19. That doesn't even mean we had relationships or continued to have sex it just means thats when we first did it. Rest assured. My best friend is amazing and she's turning 23 in December. Never kissed, never had a relationship, never had sex. But her life is great she's studying medicine in the tropics. Its really just random timing, dont sweat it. It will happen for u
There's nothing wrong with you. Unfortunately at your age looks are very big deal for guys. I was no different when I was an 18 year old young man. It's just the way it is. If your over weight then your going to need to get serious about dropping some pounds if you wanna get the attention of some of these guys. I would say to do it more for yourself so you can look and feel good about yourself and not just for the sole purpose of getting male attention.
Well you still very young, also you are shy and overweight to it's add to the difficulty of finding someone, anyway I think that many guys would appreciate that part about you, so don't worry about that too much, many guys prefer pure girls. :)