i went on tinder as a joke, it was fun to see different people around me that I don't know. I started talking to someone and we started to use snapchat and we have been for three months now. He's fun and quirky and my total opposite and I think I'm falling for him but can I really love someone without meeting them?
Not me. As @glitz_glamour eluded to, is that knowing a person IRL is different than online. Let's say you two click online. That's because you have time to think of responses to questions (I think... I don't have / use tinder). Also, there are little manurisms another person has IRL that you don't see online.
That's not even including the EF (energy field) component of it.
Yes it's possible, but I think in most cases you're in love with an illusion, because you build an image of what the person is like in real life, and how your life could be together. When you meet them in real life your illusion becomes shattered
I'd hold onto your heart , until you can hold him your arms, because until you met up you can never know for sure how genuine someone is.
Okay, so I did the same. I started liking this guy after talking to him for a couple weeks, and right now we're in a relationship. It's possible to really like them, I don't think you can love them. I really think you should go on a date with him, people online can behave differently in person. Since they're behind a screen they don't have to feel insecure. So I really do suggest going on a couple dates, because you want to be sure that you have the same chemistry you have online as well as in person. So give that a try, then you can determine your feelings for him. Good luck :)
Imagine this.. this handsome, model-esque dude with the wit and charm of a movie star lights up your world on an app... and then you meet him and his voice sounds like Mickey Mouse. You mos def gotta connect IRL... plus, who else he chattin' up like that if you haven't even met him yet? ;)
Yes, I can say I am in a similar situation. (Care to be friends and answer my question?) I believe it is possible. It's a strong emotional connection, which is more important than a physical one, in my opinion.
You can have a crush on him. But you can only love him if you know him better.
You can't love someone that you've only been talking to online for 3 months. For all you know, he could be harboring some deep secret or a lie. After talking to someone I knew for 2 YEARS and sharing a lot, it turns out he's married. He says they don't have sex anymore, but can you expect me to believe that? No matter what we discuss from now on or how many times he says "I love you," it will never really be love.
It's hard to love someone you don't know in real life. You don't see what their life is like. You can't see who they live with, how dirty/clean they keep their house, what their hygiene is like, or any of that stuff. What if you met and decided you didn't like their scent, or maybe he's more violent/pessimistic than it seemed?
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