I've been asked out a few times by girls privately, but I've said no for my own reasons. Whenever I tell my friends about it, they always want to know the names of the girls I rejected. When you reject someone, do you keep it to yourself or tell people?
If someone were to ask me did you ever go out with so and so? my answer will always be naw, something else came up. ~or~ Whatever happened to Kathy, I thought you two would be perfect together? my answer will always be yeah, so did I.
Of course, the asker always wants details so I say the reason is not very interesting and I would rather focus on something else.. then laugh.
I know my reaction sometimes makes it look like I got rejected, but who really cares? At the very least, I did not say anything negative about the other person and I can put my head down every night knowing that.
If someone I'm friends or buddies with asks me, I'll tell them. Maybe they're interested in her, but if I know she got gangbanged by 20 guys at least once, and a couple of black guys another time, they have a right to know. I don't want to stick my dick in a disease-ridden petri dish, I doubt anyone else does either.