Do you tell your friends that you rejected someone?

I've been asked out a few times by girls privately, but I've said no for my own reasons. Whenever I tell my friends about it, they always want to know the names of the girls I rejected. When you reject someone, do you keep it to yourself or tell people?

  • I keep it to myself
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  • I tell other people
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Most Helpful Girl

  • I keep it to myself. I never want to embarrass the other person. I rejected them because I didn't think they were right for me. I didn't do it to make a public statement.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • If someone were to ask me did you ever go out with so and so? my answer will always be naw, something else came up.
    ~or~
    Whatever happened to Kathy, I thought you two would be perfect together? my answer will always be yeah, so did I.

    Of course, the asker always wants details so I say the reason is not very interesting and I would rather focus on something else.. then laugh.

    I know my reaction sometimes makes it look like I got rejected, but who really cares? At the very least, I did not say anything negative about the other person and I can put my head down every night knowing that.

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What Girls Said 16

  • It's not something that I brag about no. I'll only tell them who if I see or know he asked her out, which has happened before. But typically I keep it to myself.

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  • Just becuase they are friends does not mean I have to tell every single aspect of my life to them.

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  • No, that would be between the person turned down and myself only.

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  • I keep it to myself. why humiliate them.

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  • I keep it to myself. I might tell my 2 close friends if they don't know the guy if we're talking about it.

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  • Only my best friend.

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  • Yeah, my close friends

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  • I keep it to myself unless the person I rejected lied and told other people they had sex with me.

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  • I keep it to myslef. Excpet this one time where a guy asked me out to make my bestie jealous and I told her because she deserved better than that douche

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  • I usually keep it to myself, but it depends on the circumstance.

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  • I tell the people who I know won't make that rejected person feel bad. I tell my closest friends.

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  • If I want to, it's not that significant

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  • Generally I keep it to myself unless it's a funny story or someone who's a mutual friend.

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  • I usually keep it to myself, unless the guy annoyed me.

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  • I wouldn't telling people this.

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  • Yes, my friends, family, sometime at my coworker too when I'm boring

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What Guys Said 3

  • If someone I'm friends or buddies with asks me, I'll tell them. Maybe they're interested in her, but if I know she got gangbanged by 20 guys at least once, and a couple of black guys another time, they have a right to know. I don't want to stick my dick in a disease-ridden petri dish, I doubt anyone else does either.

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  • I try not to so that her feelings are hurt more

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  • I keep it to myself

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