I don't know, I'm single and never dated, it wouldn't bother me, unless she was having sex with different guys all the time in the past. Especially if they don't have kids or some crazy things happening in their lives why would it matter? For me it wouldn't
There isn't anything to think other than could be single for a number of things. Maybe he likes it. Divorced and hasn't found a new lady yet. My sense from being on this site is that young people today thing there is some kind of stigma if you don't have a guy or girl. Can't be further from the truth. Why would there be something wrong with being single. I chose to be single for about four years after my divorce. I didn't go four years because I couldn't find a lady, I choose to spend time working on some things that I knew had a negative effect on my marriage. I then started dating again. Four years sounds like a long time, especially to young people, but I am much happier with who I am and what it is bringing to new relationships. One more thing I have to say. The young people today put way to much emphasis on good looks. Good looks are nothing if the person isn't a good person as well. It wasn't this way a number of years ago. I'm not saying good looks aren't nice, but far from what is important.
My first thought is that she spent her teens and 20s riding the bad-boy cock carousel. My next thought is that she is about to hit the wall, which will give her a brutal reality check. My third thought is that she might have been indoctrinated with anti-family anti-woman Femanist lunacy and that she might be beginning to realise that it ruined her life. My fourth thought is to kick back and enjoy the schadenfreude.
They're smart... The average Joe rushes off to get married because they're told that's what they are suppose to do. Then more then half of them end up divorced and miserable with broken families that spawn mixed up children. You're best chances statistically of having a marriage that lasts, starts around 32. While you don't want to wait forever, getting married in your 20s is just asking for trouble. I know several couples that married around 40 and they're doing well. :D
So if you are single in you 30 good for you. By now you've probably learned a bit about yourself and other people, and are likely to choose someone for the right reasons.
It depends on where his head's at. It's a good age, as you start earning, get a cool Apt in a cool neighborhood, nice car, money for travel and dating. Enjoy it while it lasts, unless you're a confirmed bachelor. The big earning gay guys are living big.
that maybe he has some problems in his life and because of those problems he's still single, or he's afraid of serious relationships because of his past experience. or maybe he just a player and a promiscuous guy thats why he's single
I dont understand why people think if a person is single in their 30s that there's something wrong with them. Not everyone finds 'the one' at the same time. And there's nothing wrong with having high standards. I think a person should have high standards for the person theyre marrying. Whats the point in settling if you're not going to be happy?