I'm tired a jerks out there. I never seem to be the girlfriend. I'm just the one they call to go out twice just to be let down, cheated on, used, and then the girl after me is the one they marry or at least treat like an actually person even though I usually have way more going for me than the next chick. Dating shouldn't be so damn complicated. Why are people such jackasses when it comes to dating?
My only suggestion is to live your life. If the right guy comes around, great. If not, there is still more to you than what guy is in your life. If it happens it happens, if not, oh well. It sounds like you just need to get away for a while, and don't compare your life to other women.
As far as the guys you have been with in the past, analyze every single one of them, write notes, and try to learn some lessons from those experiences to help you grow and better look out for yourself, and dodge red flags. In the future go SLOW in relationships. Don't let your guard down and test a man to see where he goes.
Dating is complicated and I never understood why it became so tough -.- I understand what you mean
I gave up around two years ago and I have never been happier.
I really, really want to settle down with a woman, despite my lack of relationship experience (one long distance one that was chaste when we were together), but I'm NOT going to settle for a woman who has slept around.
At my age, that doesn't leave many options, so I'll probably just enjoy my money and freedom to pursue my hobbies.
Agreed!!! I've been single two years. Dated guy who didn't want relationship but was on a dating website... Then same again he wanted no commitment but then left me got in a relationship. Then i slept with a friends boyfriend for six months. Then i started chatting to someone online but then he disappeared and talks once a week... met someone in town who still likes his ex. It's never ending battle of the wrong guys. I'm looking.. I am confident however nothing seems to work out. Given up now.