Guy asks her out
Guy picks her up
Guy pays for her meal
Guy pays for other activities
Guy leads conversation
What do girls do? Sit there and look pretty?
The guy then has to hope he's impressive enough to her, and if not you wasted your time and money! Congratulations!
Most Helpful Girl
nah dude, it is a two way street. both parties have to show interest.
in my case, girl notices guy on facebook. girl adds guy on facebook. guy waits 3 months to add back. guy writes girl a message on facebook. girl writes a message back. Girl asks guy if he wants to talk on the phone. guy gives girl the wrong number. girl gives guy her correct number. guy calls girl. girl calls guy. then girl goes and drives almost 4 hours to see guy. she picks guy up. they split the bill. girl continues to go see guy. guy pays friend to see girl. girl has to buy a plane ticket to fly overseas to leave all her friends and family to live in a foreign country where she knows no one to be with guy. girl gets pregnant twice for guy's kids. girl takes care of all the bills, finance and house and food and laundry and everything... girl reads self help books. girl helps guy with all his character flaws. girl raises kids. girl reads books on how to raise kids to be non brats! see it is not always guy blah blah blah first... it is a two way street ! you both contribute like a team0
Most Helpful Guy
Here's your first and biggest mistake - you listened to women's advice on dating.
Go slap yourself across the face a dozen times right now.
Fuck! This shit pisses me off so much.
Ok. So... Are your cheeks red and swollen yet? Good.
Now listen very very carefully. If you want to get good at dating and interacting with women, go learn from someone who is good at dating and interacting with women. All this dating advice from romcoms and cosmo are just fantasy fan fiction by women to day dream to. That shit doesn't work, and will only make you miserable.
Here's a hint for you to tell if you're on the right path.
What kind of guys do women look for?
Answer: Attractive guys.
What is the definition of attraction?
əˈtrakʃ (ə) n/
the action or power of evoking interest in or liking for someone or something.
"the timeless attraction of a good tune"
synonyms: appeal, attractiveness, desirability, seductiveness, seduction, allure, allurement, magnetism, animal magnetism, sexual magnetism, charisma, charm, beauty, good looks, glamour, magic, spell; More
a quality or feature that evokes interest, liking, or desire.
"this reform has many attractions for those on the left"
a place which draws visitors by providing something of interest or pleasure.
"the church is the town's main tourist attraction"
Ok, fine. I'll break it down even further.
You need to be someone that a girl finds interesting and you need to evoke her desire to know more about you. Which means that unless she is chasing you, you fucked up and you're not attractive. Stop what you're doing, and go back to step one and figure out how to be attractive.