Pretty simple. I'm debating whether or not to ask a guy to hang out and wondering if guys just say that, or if they really mean it. I've noticed a lot of guys tell girls on this site to take the initiative and ask the guy out, but how would you like it, personally?
As a side note, I may have to do this through text or a phone call. Just a casual "Hey this movie looks good do you want to see it with me?" ONLY because I hardly ever see him in person and when I do he is surrounded by people or either super busy and I can't ask him something personal like that. How terrible would a text like that be? It's not like I'm proposing!
- I would love it if a girl asked me to hang out with her and wouldn't mind if it was through a text message.Vote A
- I would love it if a girl asked me to hang out with her but I would hate it if it was through a text message.Vote B
- I would feel uncomfortable if a girl asked me to hang out with her in person OR through a text message.Vote C
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Here's an analogue to this scenario: I'm in a dancing society, and we meet often on campus to swing dance. Usually the girls just sit around waiting for a guy to ask them to dance. Of course this is what I usually do yet I get tired of it after a while, but whenever a girl asks me to dance I'm so much more into it! It's such a pleasant surprise... and the same goes for hanging out with girls! Guys are expected to make so many moves it becomes tiring and discouraging. I can't imagine any guy who wouldn't enjoy being asked by a girl to a movie unless his ego was the size of a blimp. And in that case he isn't worth the trouble.2