For a guy with social anxiety, how is he supposed to get girls?
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S. A is like a belly. Or a bad habit.
You can take steps to get rid of it. Lots of people have had it. Lots of people have gotten rid of it. Lots of people have decided to try and help those still afflicted and tell them how to fix it. What they can't do, is fix laziness. So if you're too damn lazy to fix the problem, then there's nothing anyone can do for you.
What Girls Said 2
Work on yourself first, get past it the best you can.
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What Guys Said 10
They have to slowly test their boundaries and push their comfort zones. I've been pretty antisocial too and that has helped me quite a bit. You can't box yourself and build too many walls because it hurts you in the long run. Gradually chip away at the walls bro. I believe in you.
You either overcome it or you stay single.
go out and talk to girls despite your anxiety. the more often you do it, the easier it will be and you overcome your anxiety. maybe try online dating first if it's easier
Gain some confidence by putting yourself out there in situations you don't like. It's hard but it helps.
Suck it up and grow a pair...
Speaking from experience here, you're going to have to face your fears and talk to girls yourself. it's hard I know but you don't want to stay single forever
You have to beat your demons first man, thats necessary.
Online dating to start off with
I haven't figured that out yet.
We don't, we're just losers, wankers.
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