Senior year in high school. I'm enjoying it so far. My girlfriend is one year older than me and is a freshman in college. I'm a senior in high school and getting attention of high school girls in freshman and sophomore classes.
Im considering dumping my girlfriend for a younger girl who is lesser experienced. The younger girl is just as hot. My girlfriend has only been sexual with 1 guy before me and it bothers me. I've been sexual with 4 girls before my girlfriend. But her sexual past still bothers me.
I've always wanted to know what it would be like to be with and date a younger with lesser experience than my girlfriend. I saw high school seniors in the past date younger and it looks satisfying. Until now, the only girls wanting to date are ones with experience. Wtf is up with that?
Should i dump my girlfriend for a younger and inexperienced girl?
The Writing on the Senior Wall and All here, dear Is... You are Not Into a Real Relationship anymore. If you are having Naughty thoughts of 'Dumping' your Girl, maybe it is Time to Cut her free, so you can Go out and Have any 'Younger and Inexperienced girl' that you Want or you Might find. Plus, it will give her, the More Mature girl a Chance for Romance. You are still Wet Behind the Ears in years and Nothing wrong with this. Let her Know where you Stand and just be a Man, but Never end up to Be... A Cheat Sheet. Good luck. xx
Dear God you sound like a douchebag I went to high school with who broke up with with girlfriend because he needed to focus on God. Just as pathetic actually. You're girlfriend deserves a better jerk than you since you're so immature that you think this is ok
The fact that you have more experience and she accepts you for your past means that this girl is very mature. The problem with dating an inexperienced girl is that she is looking for her first time to play out as causal or special as she wants. You should respect that. Sometimes young girla make the mistake of giving sex even when they aren't ready. Maybe this is what your current girlfriend went through. Honesty with both girls is the way to go. If you're looking for sex being a big part of your relationship then an experianced girlfriend is what you want. Maybe this will change your perspective about the good seemingly innocent girlfriend you already have. Lots of girls lie about being a virgin & not being a virgin. So its more important to be with someone you genuinely like and trust. You are still very young and i respect you question your thoughts. It is important for you to date lots of different girls before you date long term. Long term relationships at a young age can hurt both parties when they finally start coming to an end. Let your gfs know they can be honest about what they want so they dont do something they regret. If a girl wants her first time to be with you then dont get a big head. Let it be HER experience. Not yours. She deserves to have the one first time the way she wants it because her future lovers, her mother, her friends WILL BE TOLD that story. Everyone has their own life path. Dont munipulate the situation to make yourself look better to your current girlfriend. We all know the emotional & passionate creatures females can be. Be humble and sweet when you let her go. xx
Honestly, if you leave your girlfriend for a younger (and dumber) freshman girl, you're a dick. Why put all this time into a relationship if you just end up hurting her by leaving her for another woman who probably won't be in your life forever? Your girl is in college and getting a career with a degree. So what if she only slept with one person before you? Thats something to be proud of. It could mean she is hella loyal. If you're willing to give that up in a woman, you're an idiot, bro.
There are two things here, first of all if your girlfriend's past is bothering you then shouldn't be in this relationship and did you know about her past before you got into a relationship with her? or did you come to know about that later on?
If you knew about her past before getting into a relationship then why this is suddenly bothering you? and if you knew her past then you shouldn't have got into a relationship with her. Logically speaking.
However no matter what my answer is you should break up with your girlfriend because if her past is bothering you then you shouldn't be with her and that's because it will not do any good to you or to her and your insecurities and fears will clearly become visible as the time progresses and eventually break up will happen. Hence my suggestion is you should break up with your girlfriend.
As far as the other woman is concerned, what did you mean by inexperienced? I mean do you mean she is a virgin and has never been in a relationship before?
In that case also my answer is NO, you should break up with your girlfriend and just be single at least for a while and figure out what you really want. Let's say you go for that inexperienced woman who is a virgin and has never been in a relationship before, then if you tell her your past that you have been with 4 sexual partners before do you think your past will not bother her?
I mean there is a chance that she can be bothered by your past eventhough you will enjoy being with that woman, right?
Hence my suggestion is you shouldn't be with either of them. The final decision is yours of course.