That'd be perfect for me because I want to be able to enjoy my youth without feeling pressured by him to have kids early. It'd work out even more if there was an age gap so I could get pregnant in my early 30s, I've heard the older a woman is the higher the risk becomes still sounds like a sweet deal.
For women it's dangerous having children that late. So I wouldn't suggest it.
This is just comes across as someone saying "I don't want kids but I promise in some distant future there is a chance". If you make an ultimatum to wait that long it probably won't happen. Why? Because you don't want kids.
Let's say he's 25, I start dating him now. By the time he's 40, I'm 35. At 32 a woman's fertility begins to slowly decline, then reclines more drastically in late 30s. Plus, advanced paternal age has been shown to have potential negative effects on the child both genetically and otherwise.
Because I'm pretty dead set on having kids, I'd like to start trying between 25-30.
And plus I think it's better when the guys a bit younger than 40 at least when he starts having kids so it ensures he's in good shape to play with them. I'm only about to be 20 but my dads 60 years old 🙄Luckily he's in excellent shape for his age but still, it would've been nice to have a younger dad lol
No because by time we are that age I would be a high risk pregnancy, plus I want LOTS of time with my kids. Not to be nearly middle aged when I start. My mom was 38 when she had me, which was somewhat late.
Probably not. I heard having kids at 40 increases the chance of down syndrome by 50%. I'd rather my kids have a long fulfilling life and I wouldn't want to do anything to possibly jeopardise that, including waiting until 40 years old