How important does a man's past play in your decision to be in a relationship with him? No matter what the degree of mistakes he has made, if you feel he has moved on from those ways, how likely are you to hold that against him? No matter the degree. Maybe he cheated on a college test or perhaps he is just out of prison for murder or something, but is sincere in his redemption and deep down is a great person with a good excuse for his action (s).
I know a man who used to drink, cheat on his wife, and other things. One day he decided to turn it all around. 25 years later, he has not drank or done anything wrong. Then there are people I know who never learn.
It really depends on the person around how honest they are with themselves and others.
Most Helpful Girl
this is gonna sound bad, I know, but if he has a past of being a player or has a lot of baby mom's that definitely holds an impact bc I don't want to be hurt or played or be your 4th baby mom or date a deadbeat. but, if he has felonies or is on probation or whatever I don't really care. is that messed up?3
Most Helpful Guy
It is important to know a person's past regardless of gender. What you are asking is subjective. I would want to be in front of the person and hear their story. I believe it is possible for someone to go through traumatic life changing events and be truly changed. Here are two great stories of hardened criminals saved by Christ.
Nicky Cruz. The Cross and the Switchblade