- He has many hot females friends on FaceBook - He has many pictures kissing girls, or girls kissing him and in his/their arms - He follows many regular attractive girls on IG (not celebrities) -He's very attractive, and surprisingly single - Many party and alcohol pictures. ----------- - Not respectful to his family specially parents -Not respectful to god - Doesn't like the idea of marriage and kids - Is unemployed and doesn't look for a job - Doesn't have a University degree/diploma - Has way too many exes and/ or hookups
I always pay attention to how he treats to waiter/waitress and though this rule may be seen as overused, It is very important for me how he treats to someone who does their job, whether he's respectful to them or not. If he is rude to them then he loses me. Once one guy lost me at that point when he said something disrespectful to the security police who did his job.
Slept with multiple people Never been in a serious relationship Insecure No friends/close family Disrespectful to people (family, servers, etc) My parents don't like him Wants to change me Careless with spending or too frugal Bad hygiene Doesn't have a sense of humor Doesn't life a healthy lifestyle
Is divorced Has a kid Always complains and/or talks about his exes Only text me late at night Will not go out in public with me Talks about sex immediately Verbally abusive Has no job Lies about little things Is separated Will not introduce his friends to me
*Asking me for another date while we are still on the first one. *Any resentment at all about my lifestyle, no matter how small. *Sentences that contain "Im not like that" or "I would never do that" *People not allowing me to leave when I want to.
Overweight, at all. Over 25. Kids. The latest phone, 'hottest' fashions, that kind of thing, but no means of paying for it herself. Entitlement attitude. College degree. Travels a lot. Gives off a slut vibe.
1. A relationship killer- If she says she's hungry and doesn't know what/where she's wants to eat. 2. A sign that it won't make it past friends with benefits status- If she's a "Cat lady"... owns multiple cats. 3. If she never wants to do anything and always is tired or wants to stay at home. I'm a outdoors/active person... laziness won't fly with me. 4. If she is doesn't know how to communicate... WOMEN ARE FAR WORSE AT COMMUNICATING THAN MEN, I can't stand when they blow up for no reason just because they don't know how to express themselves (like an adult) when they run into an issue. 5. She's Vegan or vegetarian... I love food especially seafood, barbecues (cheese burgers, hotdogs, ribs, chicken) If we can't eat mostly the same things... it's doomed.
The plain old "Gut Instincts" - I think "Red Flags" are just your subconscious tapping you on the shoulder going "I think he/she is wrong for you" - It is like with person A you could run screaming but with person B they do the same thing and you stay. I have been in a relationship where red flags were waving all around me but I stayed and I would have left sooner from someone else for a whole lot less.
1/ feminist the rest tend to fall UNDER #1 but here they are: 2/ psychopath or narcissist 3/ entitled 4/ selfishness 5/ materialistic 6/ never wrong 7/ unfair rulebook on behaviors 8/ abusive, calls names-means violence is ahead. 9/ dishonest 10/ head games
1-Entitlement 2-Leftist/feminist 3-Wants me for what I have, not who I am/gold digger 4-Thinks too much of herself/diminishes others constantly 5-Used to hookup with "bad boys", specially the prettier, richer and more experienced ones 6-Says she's deeply religious but never acts like it/liar 7-Has no personality whatsoever/literally just a pretty face