So I'm dating this guys who's very logical and introverted. He has good social skills and what not but he's an INTJ. I on the other hand am overly friendly, extremely extroverted, emotionally driven and talk too much. How do I make sure that I'm being a good partner and respecting his needs without overwhelming him?
I've dated plenty of extroverts but I think that's part of the reason we broke up, we were too similar. I really like this guy. We've been together about 2 months and I don't want to mess it up.
Thanks in advance!
Most Helpful Guy
I am an INTJ, and I like extroverts.
Though it would help if you learn when to be quiet, and when you need to talk about something just to talk about something, understand that it is really bloody annoying for him that you're not looking for a solution.1
Most Helpful Girl
Well my boyfriend and i are like this... being an introvert he recharges with time to reflect and be on his own a bit. You on the other hand get energy from being with other people. Dont expect him to be the guy who is your only friend you need to hang with your crowd as well. He'll need time on his own sometimes to recharge so let him have some space to recharge in his own way.1