Me and my boyfriend have been talking for a year but we made it "official" a few weeks ago. I just don't know about moving out of state when me and him don't live together. He's a little older than me (26) I'm 21 and I've never lived in another state and it kinda scares me.
*I don't have family in NY.
*what if things don't work out between me and the guy? I'm stuck in a state with no one.
*I don't have any money saved or a car to drive on my own.
The only good things that would come out of moving to NY with the guy is I'll be away from my mom and her horrible sisters and their brats and I get to be with the guy I really care about.
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Hm. You are being smart and taking risks which is awesome.
However, life is all about taking risks and it's too short.
Why not go but make arrangements just in case something goes wrong?
Tell him you're willing to go for about 1-2 months to experience with him, but not to live there with him and thats it. If you guys dont fight and it does work out make your decision then.0