It's very superficial but if I'm not attracted to their face (or body) I won't be interested. Like I can find their face attractive but find their body a turn off and vice versa. Many of these people are nice and I would like to look past it. But how can I develop any attraction or affection for someone I don't find appealing? I feel I would be forcing myself and I don't think that's fair to them.
Most Helpful Guy
No you can't force yourself to be attracted to someone. If you're not then it's not a good idea to pretend you are because it's not fair on either of you.0
Most Helpful Girl
You can't really change who you find physically attractive but you should still give him a chance because there probably are other qualities you find attractive about the guy and that can definitely change how you see him as a whole because if you really click with someone and get close to them the thought of how physically attractive they are becomes less and less important, at least in my experience. Hope this helps!0